Why do some asian brides prefer older men? First, you have to realize that Thai attitudes to age are not the same as in western countries. It took me a long time to believe and understand this. Let’s face it, In the western world people who are over 40 are often social outcast in the online asian singles scene. If you are divorced or widowed the chances of having a relationship with asian ladies is close to zero. In Thailand the attitude is very different. Thailand brides often prefer a mature man, as you will see from many of the profiles. It is not unusual for a thailand wives to marry someone 20 or 30 years older than herself. I know, my asian wives are much younger than me, and at first it gave me cause for concern, I was still thinking western. “What will people think?”  But in Thailand you do not get the same reaction from other Thailand singles. Many single Thailand ladies like older men and will often consider western men who are much older if she finds that he is nice, sincere, financially secure and responsible. Once she feels confident with her western man thailand girls will dedicate her life to pleasing him. Thai ladies are very devoted and loyal. They feel that many much older man are serious in having a permanent relationship and will not play around like younger men. Many young asian girls have found that some much older men still look healthy, good looking and can be acceptable although their ages already passed 50. They also feel that much older men are kind, sincere and gentle so this is another reason for them to open their mind to meet and learn more about an older man.